By Terri Schlichenmeyer
“Ray & Joan” by Lisa Napoli, Dutton, 353 pages, $27. To go. Whoever put those two delicious words together really knew what they were doing: Order your food, ask for it “to go,” save yourself time and eat wherever you want. You might not even have to get out of the car. Yes, “to go” are magic words but, as in the new book “Ray and Joan” by Lisa Napoli, there are still things you can’t take with you when you do.